today is 2nd day of soft skills course. they were talking about conflict management. haha... i can smell a conflict somewhere... buat tak tahu jelah! acting passive? lantaklah... sarang tebuan jangan dijolok, nanti teruk kena serang!
we went to our clerk's wedding. the two bosses went together with me and with 4 other MOs. but the bosses were in my car. haha... tak pasal2 kena tegur suruh bawak kereta assertively. termalu kita! entahlah... selalunya kalau bawak orang lain dalam my car, i drive slow sikit, tapi hari ni i just drive seperti biasa. i was just being myself! biasalah, kita ni clumsy sikit. the pengantin baru was in yellow, berseri2 tapi tetap kalut seperti biasa. semoga berbahagia ke anak cucu.
balik rumah, tak sabar nak bagi goody bags to my children. but the house was quiet. the children was away at my sister's house. they have just returned from a holiday in KL. mmm... kesian my children terperap kat rumah je cuti sekolah ni. yesterday they were begging me to bring them to the swimming pool, but i was too tired. cuaca panas sangatlah... hari ni pun i rasa macam tak nak gi je. too hot!
today, most of my sisters are travelling home to taman guru. how i wish to be home, together with them. i miss them. the last time we were together was last december, almost 6 months ago.
apa yang best sangat jumpa depa semua tu? borak. kami akan chit-chat and chit-chat and chit-chat and gosssipping. kami boleh bercakap sambil preparing food, sambil masak, sambil makan sampai kering nasi kat tangan, sambil kemas, sambil minum kopi dan minum lagi dan lagi dan lagi sampai pukul 3, 4 pagi. kadang2 masuk tidur dalam bilik, kadang2 tertidur kat living area, kadang2 tertidur kat settee kat dapur, sambil tv terus terpasang. tapi selalunya kami masuk bilik masing2lah.
mula2 dulu our hubbybies bising jugak, tapi lama2 depa dah faham. sometimes depa keluar gi makan2 colek kat luar, tapi selalunya mereka suka tidur! pukul 10 pagi dah nak tidur, lepas lunch tidur, lepas asar tidur, lepas dinner borak2 kejap, then tidur. tak fahamlah lelaki ni. universal problem - suka tidur. macamlah depa je kerja kuat, kita lagi kerja kuat. kami seldom keluar dari dapur sebab tak henti2 prepare food. lepas breakfast, nak minum tea pukul 11 pulak. then lunch, lepas tu evening coffee or tea pulak. pas tu dinner, then coffee or tea lagi! tapi seronok...
selalunya time2 gini je i boleh abaikan telefon. i boleh nak tinggalkan my phone dalam bilik and couldn't be bothered by any calls or messages. i just wanna have fun with my family.
lagi, yang seronoknya sebab kami boleh gi shopping sesama, tanpa our hubbybies. so no pressure utk shopping laju2. boleh take our own sweet time. boleh belek and belek, and compare prices here and there, and pilih and pilih. tapi most of us suka buat kerja cepat, so our shopping are quite efficient. kalau kami beli barang 2-3 trolley, kami boleh volunteer lagi kat cashier tu untuk pack kan barang2 kami dlm plastic bag tu sendiri, sebab kami tak tahan tgk depa kerja slow sangat.
lepas balik shopping kami akan buat session tunjuk2 barang yang dah dibeli. kadang2 my sisters tu kalau beli kain, boleh berbelas or berpuluh pasang, then akan adalah insan yang akan beli dari dia. yang lebih, dia akan gi jual kat kawan2. sessi tayang baju raya. sessi tayang baju anak2. haha... tak de kerja betul! bukannya nak menunjuk, but we just want to share!
my youngest sister nak gi umrah middle of june ni. tak sempat nak jumpa dia. dia balik kb tinggalkan her children with her mother in law. my mother dah tak larat nak jaga baby, she is asthmatic and lately nampak sungguh cepat penat. she is already 70. my dad yang selama ni i rasa cukup steady pun dah nampak makin aging. walaupun dia sihat, tapi sakit lututlah, selsemalah, batuklah. la ni pergi masjid kat belakang rumah pun dia naik kereta. mujurlah neighbourhood kat taman guru tu bagus, kadang2 ada their younger friends datang hantar nasi bungkus special, ada anak2 arwah orang kaya kat depan tu yang selalu datang bagi kueh and macam2 food. kalau raya pun selalu datang hantar cakes for my parents. yelah... anak2 sendiri duduk jauh di perantauan. orang berbudi kita berbahasa, orang memberi kita merasa. semangat kejiranan. my mom sendiri pun dah jarang sangat masak, nak gi pasar pun macam dah tak larat. apapun, dia masih sanggup duduk bilik atas and sanggup turun naik tangga berkali2 sehari bcoz she prefers her own toilet, and nak solat in her room. semua 4 bilik kat bawah tu dia tak minat. my father pun sama.
i'll be on leave till tuesday. tomorrow kena balik besut, SIL nak tunang. belum decide nak balik KB or not, kalau balik pun may b hubbyby tak ikut sebab dia nak balik jaga kedai on tuesday. usually i drive sendiri ngan anak2. tapi penatlah kalau balik sehari je... wednesday nak masuk ot pula. tengoklah camana...
hai sunyinya rumah... bila anak2 nak balik ni? how i miss everyone.
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